The psychological phenomena that hypnotherapists
either love or hate
Of all the phenomena encountered by the working hypnotherapist
- or stage hypnotist, for that matter - the abreaction is
probably the least understood. Or the most MISunderstood.
The first encounter the therapist has with this process
of the mind is inclined to polarise him/her and from that
moment on s/he will either seek to avoid it like the plague
or search it out with a determination that is at least equal
to the client's resistance.
It's the type of training we receive that governs this
response; analysts are delighted by abreaction, live (in
the therapeutic sense) for abreaction, and firmly believe
that it provides the fastest and most profound relief from
all manner of psychological symptoms. Others may be less
certain of this, viewing this sudden intensely emotional
state with alarm, and frantically searching for ways to
calm down what their administrations have disturbed. All
therapists should have a clear idea of what is actually
happening, and should also understand a Very Important Fact
- abreaction, handled properly, can do only good for your
client. I have worked with the abreactive state in therapy
for a good many years now, seeing 30 a clients a week for
most of that time, and can promise you that there is nothing
to fear from it, as dramatic and traumatic as it can appear
to be. It cannot cause your client lasting harm and it cannot
leave them worse off than before they came to you, no matter
what you might read to the contrary, as long the process
is completed.
So what exactly is it and how do we handle it? As for what
it is, it is the revivication of a traumatic experience
that occurred in a moment of great trauma - usually, though
not exclusively, during our formative years. In other words,
the release of a repression. An adult repression can occur
as a result of, say, a traumatic road accident, when we
then tend to call it amnesia, instead.
There can be three separate, though intimately connected,
memories involved with any form of repression. The perception
of the event (usually visual); the physical sensations;
and the emotional response. And, yes, they ARE entirely
separate memories and each may 'surface' together or individually.
It is not unusual for a client to recall, in one session,
a physical sensation of some sort so strongly that s/he
can actually FEEL it, yet not discover the emotional response
or the exact nature of the event until their next session
or even the one after that. It is the emotional part of
any abreaction (often unwarranted guilt, shame, or vulnerability)
that is the most important and once this has been 'surfaced'
and worked through, it is likely that the client will display
little or no interest in further investigation of that particular
memory. It is not uncommon, in fact, for the emotion to
be released without ever discovering what was the cause
of it; this appears to matter little, for catharsis will
still be effected and symptoms still alleviated.
This revivication can be so realistic, as far as the client
is concerned, that their body will actually reproduce the
physical changes that occurred at the time of the event;
if there was an element of suffocation, for example, your
client may suddenly find great difficulty breathing - or
may even stop breathing for a few moments. If they were
physically abused in some way, then they may well feel that
same abuse - or the results of it - whilst in your chair,
just as if it were happening to them right at that very
moment. I have seen finger marks appear where a slap on
the face has been recalled. There is no mystery here, simply
the autonomic system perceiving pain and reacting by increasing
blood supply to the area to heel effect any repair that
is necessary. A client may scream, shout, sob, sweat, shake
violently, curl up into a foetus, gag... it can be a truly
unnerving experience for the unwary! But all the therapist
has to do is make sure that they 'go for it' whole-heartedly.
Urge them on through it, though being VERY careful only
to guide and not lead (my last two articles on this page
will help with this*). Sound confident and BE confident.
Tell them to 'just be there in your mind'. Urge them to
'stay with it - give it room in your body'.
DO NOT TOUCH THEM - UNLESS YOU WANT TO BECOME PART OF THE
TRAUMA.
Not only that, it may distract them from the job in hand
and they need no comforting hand right now, anyway. Something
wonderful is happening; they are setting themselves free
from a prison of their mind's making and their life is going
to change immeasurably for the better over the next few
months.
It can be difficult, for the caring individual, to sit
and watch this event that is so evidently full of pain unfolding
in front of them, but once you have experienced the sense
of lightness and relief that a client can manifest immediately
after the abreaction has subsided, you will have no more
problem with that. It is not fair to say that all their
symptoms will disappear overnight, but from that cathartic
moment onwards, your client will start to FEEL well and
his/her symptomatic work will very soon start to fade. Usually,
you and your client will have an understanding of why the
event that has been remembered should have caused their
symptoms. If not, it always possible that there is something
else to be released but, this time, it is likely to be less
intense.
There is something of immense importance when working with
abreactive states and that is to make ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN
that your client had accessed the emotional 'roots' of their
psychological difficulty. It is the ORIGINATING CAUSE OF
TRAUMA (often called the Initial Sensitising Event, or ISE)
that we are after and nothing else will do. It is actually
quite easy to ascertain whether they have been to the right
place or not... if the emotional response does not start
to fade within a few minutes, or if it returns to its former
strength each time the memory is accessed, then there is
still work to do. Work backwards from that memory using
either direct regression or free associative techniques
to an earlier memory with the same or similar emotional
qualities and work through that one in the way you have
just been reading about. Keep going until the negative emotion
has cleared and cannot be restored. The client is then well
on the road to sound emotional health.
Mostly, abreaction of the sort discussed in this article
appears as the result of regression-style therapies, but
it can also happen spontaneously. Even then, the rules are
the same - work through it and make sure you've got it all
out.