One of the most powerful of tools for
the hypno-analyst
Free Association, the invention of the Great Grandpa of
therapy, Sigmund Freud, is viewed as 'old hat' by many.
Yet, used properly within the hypnotic state, its effects
can be extraordinarily far-reaching and permanent, especially
where there is a strongly physical content in the symptoms,
like bulemia or excessive sweating, for example.
The drawbacks are:
1. It can take longer than the Regression to Cause model
(though does not necessarily do so)
2. There is not always an immediate improvement in the
symptoms (though there often is)
The specific advantages are:
1. Therapeutic effects are far wider-reaching than with
most other methods.
2. It is not necessary for our client to follow a specific
train of thought (in fact, there will quite often be several
in evidence at any one time).
3. They will 'clear up' all sorts of unfinished childhood
business during therapy, in addition to resolving their
main symptom, reducing the potential to become psychologically
ill again.
4. Useful 'side effects' of increased self-confidence,
self worth/esteem.
We seek the same end result as with direct regression work,
that is, abreaction (see last month) and subsequent catharsis
allowing our client to let go of the psychological burden(s)
that have beset them. The therapist's major contribution
at the beginning is to teach the client how to free associate
in the first place, encourage them in their early efforts,
and to watch for resistance and attempts to evade issues
(more about that later), gently guiding them back on course
should they do so. The main problem with this method, though,
is that it is just too easy... so easy that it can sometimes
be difficult to convince the client that they are actually
doing the right thing; they will sometimes complain that
their mind is 'jumping about all over the place' - which
is exactly what we want!
Free association simply means allowing the subconscious
mind to make links between ideas and concepts with as little
interference as possible from conscious thought processes.
Once in hypnosis, we ask our client to cast their mind back
to their earliest years (we work almost exclusively in the
childhood years during free association) and tell us the
first thing they think of, without analysing it, without
questioning it in any way. Then, without trying to make
any connection at all in the conscious mind, tell us the
next thing that comes to mind. Then the next... and the
next, and so on. As simple as that. Well, very nearly; we
need to make sure that what we teach our client to do is
not simply to tell us memories, but psychological experiences.
The mind's tendency to focus on discomfort will do the rest.
The difference between a memory and a psychological experience
is that the former may well comprise just the physical details
of an event, whilst the latter will access the emotional
responses as well. The majority of people will do this automatically
but some, especially those who have been subject to repeated
abuse (not necessarily sexual), will seek to avoid confronting
those emotional states. You will have to work harder with
those individuals, maybe asking them to go back over something
that seems as if there should be more of an emotional response
than is apparent, and getting them to imagine it more vividly.
After one or two sessions of reminding your client what
you want him/her to do, you should find that they will be
silent for no more than a few seconds between recalls -
indeed they MUST NOT be silent for more than a few seconds,
for this would mean they were being selective in relating
their thoughts - the exact opposite of what is supposed
to happen. We must have the very first thought each time,
if our work is to be effective.
Certain criteria are of importance:
1. Recalls need to be of actual events, rather than vague
descriptions of the way things used to be, the daily journey
to school, aimless wandering around the area where they
lived, etc.
2. Sequential or chronological recalls are not free association
and won't get your client to where they want to be. Example:
"I remember a holiday... we're getting into the car...
now we're driving along the road... now we're stopping for
a picnic... " and so on.
3. Diversion along the lines of: "I thought this was
where I lived when I was five but now I'm not certain, because
I can remember a tree in the garden and we didn't have a
tree in the garden of that house, so I'm not sure..."
4. Not admitting a memory. A bio-feedback meter will reveal
this by a sudden sharp increase in the reading. Body language
will often show it, too, in sudden 'waggling' movements
of the feet (an urge to run away) or in other sudden movements,
especially turning the head away from you.
5. Deletion. This is shown by disconnected statements like:
"My father was a good man." Why have they said
that? Are they justifying something? Something is missing,
deleted. Maybe there should be a "but..." at the
end of that statement. "I'd have loved to have piano
lessons..." So why didn't they? Something missing again.
The therapist needs to explore these areas. A good way to
do this is to rephrase the statement if necessary and put
a question at the end of it: "And you didn't have piano
lessons, because...?" (Always use 'because?' rather
than 'why?' - it begs a far more direct answer).
This brief article merely outlines the way that free association
is used and, as you may now realise, it can be a more difficult
discipline for the therapist than direct regression. But
it is one well worth learning, and an extremely powerful
healing tool.