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This is PART - a tiny part - of my 'Easy Quit-smoking 2004' programme.
This is ideal for use where rapport is less than you would like,
or where your client is control-orientated. I tend to use it on
the rare occasions when somebody comes back after my usual quit-smoking
session has not been successful.
Read the last paragraph carefully and you'll begin to see why it
works... if you're still not sure, then it's all to do with something
called 'embedded commands', a bit of 'reverse psychology' and the
positive use of negatives... A long induction and/or deeply hypnotised
state is important here, after conscious motivational work. Pay
attention to the stressed words, but do not overdo it.
You know, deep inside yourself, that you are your own master, that
nobody could ever control you, and that therefore you can be whatever
you want to be... you know that nobody controls you or your destiny,
except you... because you have free choice and can make your own
decisions for yourself in your own time... and because of this,
you are going to decide for yourself when you want to become a non-smoker...
you are going to decide for yourself when to actually become a non-smoker...
and it's nobody's business but yours when you decide this should
be... and I can't know when you'll make this decision... I can only
wonder when it will be... whether it's today or tomorrow... whether
it's some time after that... or whether it's right now, right at
this very moment, but privately and in your own mind, as you just...
relax... I cannot know when that decision will be made, but I do
know that you will make that decision for yourself... when the time
is right for you to make that decision... and I do know that when
you've made that decision, then that natural tenacity of yours,
that natural ability to stay with a decision you've made, is going
to make it easy, almost ridiculously easy in fact, to simply STOP
the smoking habit for good.
When the time is right for you, whether that time is today, right
now, or tomorrow, or some time after that, you're going to find
it so easy to make that decision to quite and even easier to stay
with that decision... and you're going to get a whole lot of pride
and pleasure out the ease with you simply decide to do it - then
simply do it... a huge amount of real pride and pleasure when (inject
some personal goal here, or say : "you are a genuine non-smoker.")
This is something you are going to decide for yourself, in your
own time, when you want to do it... something you will pursue single-mindedly
so that you are completely indifferent to other peoples' opinions
of your decision to quit the habit, whatever those opinions might
be... others will simply be unable to change your mind by whatever
methods the seek to use... because this is something you want for
yourself and you are going to find that your determination is utter
and complete... and when you make that decision that you and you
alone are going to make, to become a non-smoker, you're going to
just know... deep inside yourself... that you are going to find
it easy... that you can deal with what used to be a problem with
absolute ease and control, so that something which you privately
thought might be difficult is going to turn out to be easy... ridiculously
easy, in fact... so easy that you actually become a source of inspiration
to others.
It's not necessary for you to attempt to work out or guess when
the moment is right for you to make your decision to quit the smoking
habit for good... you'll just suddenly know when the time is right
to do it... and you will not even try to do it before that time...
because it's important that you do not... do it until you just KNOW
that... the time is now... and you will know when that time is right...
and that moment can be at any time and may even have already passed...
and when... the time is now...
you'll be a NATURAL NON-SMOKER from that very moment onwards.
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